What is and where is the clitoris?

The psychologist, sexologist and couples therapist, Carmen Larrazábal Parodi spoke with Cromos Magazine to tell us everything we need to know about this powerful female organ.

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What is the clitoris?

It is the female sexual organ, located inside the vagina. That becomes visible from the upper part of the vulva and that covers the entire female perimeter. This word comes from the Greek 'Kleitoris' which means small mountain.

Where is the clitoris located?

Only its glans is visible in the female anatomy, exactly in the upper part of the vulva, internally it unfolds by the labia majora, surrounded by a third of the vagina for the most part.

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The color of the clitoris is variable: from pink, through brown and in some it is completely black.

How to stimulate the clitoris?

-The most important thing is to consider caresses as a rhythm, intensity and speed to your liking. Remember that intensity does not mean more pleasure.

-It is suggested to start with caresses on the labia majora, slide your fingers in the form of a clamp and increase the speed with movements as you identify sensations.

-Offers small taps with the fingertips near the glans of the clitoris

-Squeeze your vulva with movements that follow the hands of the clock.

What is the fluid that comes out of the clitoris?

The vulva and vagina secrete numerous fluids responsible for various functions.

The clitoris secretes a whitish substance, which contains dead cells, skin oils, moisture and natural bacteria. It is found surrounding the clitoris and is known by the name of smegma

What is the size of the clitoris?

The size of this part of the female anatomy is variable, between 2 and 6 mm in width and 2 and 9 mm in length. When these measures are exceeded, it is when we speak of clitoral hypertrophy.

Hygiene measures before stimulating the clitoris

-You should always clean the clitoral area after urinating or defecating, preferably using unscented toilet paper.

-Do not forget to wash the genitals with plenty of soap and water (preferably one with a neutral pH) after having sexual encounters. Keep in mind that you should not use talc, perfumes or deodorant in this area.

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-Do not wear tight underwear to promote perspiration in the area.

-Wash hands, fingers and keep nails clean without residue

-If you are going to stimulate the clitoris with your mouth, do not forget to wash your mouth, tongue, gums and teeth.

-If you are going to use sex toys remember to keep them clean and wash them after use

How to teach a man to stimulate the clitoris?

Here are some tips:

1. You must do it little by little.

2. As it is a very sensitive organ, start with gentle movements; If you feel any discomfort, use a lubricant.

3. Stimulate with the fingers, the tongue as tools of pleasure. Avoid causing pain by rubbing with your fingers.

4. Oral clitoral stimulation plus eye contact is exciting.

5. The correct stimulation of the clitoris is carried out with a combination of movements that include circular caresses around the glans, kisses and soft touches.

6. Try sex toys.