By clothing-bag, 05/12/2022

Men list 9 non-sexual things that attract them to a woman

While feminine curves obviously appeal to straight men, they're not the only thing that grabs their attention when it comes to girls.

A survey conducted by the social network Reddit, collected by the women's magazine Cosmopolitan, gathered 11 non-sexual things that users said were totally sexy. Warning: some are totally absurd and probably don't represent all men...

1. When women write reminders in the palm of their hands Inexplicably, some pointed out that it was something that caught their attention in a woman. “I can't explain it, even if my life depended on it,” said one respondent.

2. When women ignore them. It seems like an old tale, but for many it is still a reality. “I love looking at my girlfriend when she's doing something and she's not paying attention to me. It's hard to describe, but seeing her concentrating on something is really attractive,” said one guy, while others couldn't help but admire girls who don't even look at them.

3. Ankle-length socks. Other users said they loved girls in socks, especially ankle-length ones. Apparently, it's something they associate with some adult movies.

4. When women yawn or stretch. Many said that women look very cute and attractive by yawning or stretching. This is agreed by Cosmopolitan columnist Frank Kobola, who stated in a column that whether it's before getting out of bed or when trying to ease a cramp during exercise, stretching of any kind is "kryptonite."

“There is something very flattering about a woman loosening her muscles,” she opined.

5. The way they pronounce their name. Some agreed that they were attracted to the way a girl said her name, there was something highly sexual about it. (Mmm, okay)

6. Women who are smarter than them. Many admitted that smart girls, burying the urban belief that women with brains intimidate them. Alright guys.

7. stretch marks Although it seems very strange, there are guys who are attracted to stretch marks because they are an indicator of a curvy girl. And it's not the first time someone says so. A British study pointed out that these brands can be stimulating for some men, especially those who have already formed a family. “Stretch marks are a reminder of the children you have had together and your commitment to them. In addition, it is an intimate detail that only he can see," the experts said.

8. When women wear sports caps. Many men love to see their partner wearing sports accessories, because it combines two things they love: sports and their girl. For Kobola, for example, women who like sports are even more attractive. “This is a scientifically adorable look on any woman,” she says.

9. Collars attached to the neck. Because it's an accessory that draws direct attention to your neck, many find it incredibly sexy.

Other surveys

In 2010, research conducted by a team of therapists consisting of Mo Kurimbokus, marriage counselor at the Relate center in the UK; Simon Moore, holder of the career of Psychology at the London Metropolitan University; Paula Hall, psychotherapist, and psychologist Ingrid Collins, revealed that men are eroticized by the most unexpected aspects of women.

From that survey, they drew some interesting conclusions, determining some aspects that they consider sexy and they don't know it.

No makeup face: Men find it very sexy to see their partner in the morning when they haven't lined their eyes or covered their cheeks with blush. Even, according to this research, kissing lips covered with gloss is a passion killer for some.

The roll or the tummy: According to the study, they love the soft curves and the small volume of an abdomen, because that gives a touch of naturalness in the woman.

Slight wrinkles: According to psychologists, for women wrinkles are synonymous with old age and for men with experience. The "crow's feet" could be a trigger for your most erotic thoughts.

Let her order what she wants to drink: They love a determined woman who dares to order what she likes in a bar without caring what the rest think. That also shows them that she is not insecure and that she has confidence in herself.

Natural breasts: Women are self-conscious about the size of their breasts, especially those with small ones. However, they prefer the natural. According to therapists, “small breasts are seen as fresh, youthful and in good physical health. Men look for youth and vitality in them, that they can see in her a hint that she can raise children.

Mismatching underwear: Men like a bra that doesn't match the panties because that gives them a signal that she doesn't want sex and that he has to seduce her to make her want it. "Men love to find out that you're not wearing your matching outfit, because that way they think you're not planning to have sex and they persuade you to do it," say specialists.

Forget half the joke: If it happens to you that in the middle of a joke you forget what's next, don't think you're being stupid. He loves that you are natural.

That you wear any shirt to sleep: Wearing casual pajamas shows that you have confidence in yourself and that you like comfort. that's sexy too